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We are so glad you're here, even though you didn't want to be

You are so welcome. Welcome to feel everything you're feeling and express it. When your world feels upside down, attending to your grief helps you find a path forward.

In Mourning Together spaces, we share our experiences and listen to one another. We don't rush anyone to move forward- we understand that grief makes us expand our capacity to love and adapt. We know waves of grief can come at any time. Our community is here to provide shelter when those waves of grief come. When you tend to your grief, we know you will find a new way of being, with the beauty of a full range of emotions.

How I arrived at my gift

It has been a long journey to validate my own grief and attend to it.

The result has been to arrive at a place where I feel aligned with my strengths and how I can offer them to my community. Please see the Prezi presentation if you would like more detail about my own path.

MY APPROACH

Make space to feel grief and tend to the insights that come with it.

No judgement. What we we feel cannot be right or wrong- what we feel is a soul message. Soul messages help us find our path.

It can be messy to express what we feel- especially the feelings that are not acceptable to society. But in expressing all feelings, we release their hold over us. Feelings are not frozen, not part of our identity forever. The more we tend to our feelings, the more we can find the message in them and take actions that cultivate life for us and our community.

Three ways to connect

1:1 sessions- Let's go to the river and grieve

In person in Minneapolis/Saint Paul metro area. Video call sessions available as well. 1st time- schedule a discovery call.

Group Sessions- Sunday Morning Together

In person in Minneapolis/Saint Paul metro area.Sign up for the group and I'll email you the location. Sundays 7:00-8:00am

Online Community

Express how you're feeling and receive support, any time. We invite you to access spirit and insight through the language of the soul- art.

From the Soul Work Report

Mourning Together Online Group Sessions

What do we do in a Mourning Together group session?

January 20, 20251 min read

In a Mourning Together group session, we meet in nature, ideally by the ocean because the ocean is big enough to receive everything we feel. If we're not near the ocean, we meet by a riverbank because the river connects us to the sea. We hold space- a safe container- in which each participant can cry, shout, or pound their fists on the earth- whatever happens naturally in that moment when we allow our grief to be expressed and leave our body. I'm glad you cry by yourself- we must sometimes. But as Francis Weller states, "Grief has never been private, it has always been communal." So if you're crying by yourself, you cannot simultaneously create a safe container for yourself in which you can explore the depths of your feelings, knowing you will come back into a safe space. Only community can provide that container. When community witnesses your suffering, they see it as their own and we lift the sorrows up together in a circle of love. Spirit receives it and we come back from the experience feeling lighter and more alive in the present.


Come experience a Sunday Mourning Together group session. 8:00am CST online. 9:00am CST in person in Minneapolis. See the details at www.mourningtogether.art.

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Helen Blodgett

Helen Dos Santos is a Minneapolis-based artist, writer, mother, and the founder of the Mourning Together grief support community. After working as a teaching artist in NYC public schools for 11 years and continually leading creative collaborations, her writing focuses on building the communities we need for collective wellbeing. Helen has a BA from Grinnell College and an MBA from Walden University, but her favorite tagline was given by Dawn Ewing of Project Morry, “Helen has no box to think outside.”

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When I grieve I am surrounded by family reassuring me that the grieving is worthwhile and I can grieve as much as I want. We experience conflicts, loved ones die or suffer, dreams never manifest, illnesses occur, relationships break up, and there are unexpected natural disasters. It is so important to have ways to release those pains to keep clearing ourselves. Hanging on to old pain just makes it grow until it smothers our creativity, our joy, and our ability to connect with others. It may even kill us. Often my community uses grief rituals to heal wounds and open us to spirit’s call.

- Sobonfu Somé

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